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Marcia Powell’s Death Ruled an Accident -WTF!

September 25, 2009 · 1 Comment

Marcia Powell died in an outdoor cage in over 107 degree heat in Phoenix on May 21st. She’d spent three-four hours in an outdoor holding cell with no shade or water.

Powell, 48, in jail since August on a 27-month sentence for prostitution, had long-standing, well-documented mental health issues and yet she was in jail for having sex for the wrong reasons and she died. And now, it’s being labeled an accident.

How is it accidental when everyone clearly understood the risks of exposure to the heat? How is it an accident when the length of time Marcia was held was over the explicitly written time limits put in place by the jail itself?

This is a sickening, pathetic, insulting ruling. I wonder how soundly her jailers sleep at night in their air-conditioned homes?

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A Serial Killer Caught

September 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Deborah Harris, Tanya Miller, Florence McCormick, Sheila Farrior Joyce Mims, Ouithreaun Stokes.

Deborah Harris, Tanya Miller, Florence McCormick, Sheila Farrior Joyce Mims, Ouithreaun Stokes.

Milwaukee, Wisconsin is another state with a serial killer who’s killed sex workers. Only it’s one of the few states in which the murderer has been caught. Nine women over 21 years were murdered by this guy. May they rest in peace and may their families find some comfort and closure in knowing their killer is off the streets.

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Another Great Review

September 1, 2009 · 4 Comments

Monica Shores just wrote a great review of the anthogy in The Rumpus.

She writes:
You might be one of those people who doesn’t believe that sex workers are interesting. You may downright resent the cultural fascination with those who take money to titillate and masturbate strangers. Maybe you’re convinced that the only thing these men and women have going for them are passable looks and a wildly miscalibrated moral compass, and that paying attention to their déclassé life of the body glamorizes underachieving and turpitude.

If you belong to this camp, you probably don’t actually know any sex workers—at least none who would come out to you, and why would they? You’ve made up your mind about them already. You say things like: “Stripping is 1) a way to make a lot more cash than other “unskilled” service jobs [and] 2) incredibly degrading,” then add, “I’ve never been a stripper and I don’t know any strippers.” Never, for that matter, will you actually ever know anything about strippers, because they aren’t going to talk to you. Sex workers just don’t feel comfortable around you.

But many do feel comfortable with David Henry Sterry, a former gigolo best known for his memoir Chicken, and what they share with him should convince even the grouchiest non-believers that sex workers are an engaging, unusual tribe. In Hos, Hookers, Call Girls, and Rent Boys, Sterry and co-editor R.J. Martin have assembled an array of poems, interviews, and essays in a professed attempt to humanize sex workers. The mission is an admirable one, but raises the question of how many individuals who don’t already believe in sex workers’ humanity are going to pick up this hefty anthology.

It also masks the true motivating energy behind the collection, which is Sterry’s exuberant love of his fellow pros and his desire to celebrate their histories and personalities. There’s something unique about being a member of the sex worker club, an instant camaraderie that bonds one to people who would otherwise be strangers, and this chemistry is something of which Sterry can’t get enough. He refers frequently to this sense of kinship and stresses the uncommonness of his access to such candid and diverse workers. (This bragging about connections ultimately seems a little silly, given that many of the book’s contributors are well-established go-to writers like Audacia Ray, Annie Sprinkle, and Xaviera Hollander.)

Sterry’s enthusiasm also manifests as frequent, ill-advised introductions to pieces written by individuals whom he personally knows. As he details first meetings with contributors such as Surgeon and mochaluv, the focus is directed on himself rather than the person he’s touting, and it creates the impression that the writing itself isn’t good enough to hold one’s attention—that without knowing how beautiful Lorelei Lee or Carla Crandall or April Daisy White are, we won’t care about their essays.

We do care, though, because in addition to being porn stars and prostitutes, many of these people are talented writers with strong voices and precise observations. They’re natural born storytellers who manage to encapsulate an aspect of their experiences in wonderfully succinct (Sebastian Horsley: “Brothels make possible encounters of extreme intimacy without the intervention of personality.”) and stark, unsentimental ways (Brenda: “I have been arrested eight times for prostitution. It messed up my life.”)

Among the most effective pieces is Melissa Petro’s “Mariposa,” an essay on her time spent in Mexico as a white American stripper, an unforgettable script-flip of the highest order (our girls go there to make money?) Candye Kane reminisces about her sweet and genuine childhood friendship with an exotic dancer, while Sadie Lune explores the decadent excitement that comes from self-consciously inhabiting the role of an archetypal whore. Sterry himself reflects on his session with an 82-year-old woman, an encounter he initially dreads but eventually delights in: “I am making this happen. I have such a sense of joy and satisfaction.”

The standout offering, however, is Juliana Piccillo’s “Vice,” an exploration of her relationship with an invasive and needy client that rendered her alternately gratified and repulsed. Piccillo relentlessly mines the conflicting emotions that come with clients who want to play the white knight, a common but relatively undiscussed topic in most sex worker literature. “His fatherly concern co-existed with his hard-on,” she writes. “He left me to reconcile this.” She also admits to coming unintentionally (and practically unwillingly) while working in a job that generally disgusts her, and not wanting to leave in spite of hating the routine—paradoxes that many prostitutes shy away from acknowledging.

Some of these essays barely even explicitly address sex work, particularly those culled from SAGE (Standing Against Global Exploitation) workshops. The focus is instead on struggles with addiction, particularly clear and affecting memories, and current personal relationships. The inclusion of these selections may be the book’s greatest, albeit most subtle triumph. It serves as an invaluable reminder that hos and rent boys aren’t as prone to filtering their complex lives through the sieve of clients’ orgasms as are the civilians who debate about and condemn them.

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The anthology!

August 27, 2009 · 1 Comment

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My essay, Vice, about a certain detective client I had as a seventeen-year-old massage parlor worker, is in the anthology Hos, Hooker, Call Girls and Rentboys, just reviewed on the front page of the New York Times Book Review.
Toni Bentley gets it.

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Another Serial Killer brutalizing Sex Workers

August 13, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Add North Carolina to the list of states with an on the loose killer picking up sex workers and murdering them. This guy has been at since 2005. The latest body was discovered on June 29th.

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Miley, WWJD?

August 12, 2009 · 2 Comments

Miley-Cyrus-pole-dancingMiley Cyrus scored a major media coup shaking her 16-year-old booty on a stripper pole at the teen choice awards a few days ago. What a perfect microcosm of America – we hate hookers but we mimic them, we are terrified of our children being sexually exploited and there’s Billy Ray and wife beaming from the audience as their 16 year old writhes in hot pants.

Plus this chick is doing all this for an audience of teens and pre-teens! It’s not like Hannah Montana is for 16 year olds – the show’s demographic is 7-12 year olds.

Like Britney Spears circa “Oops I did it again”, with her naughty schoolgirl video, Miley’s handlers are keeping her edgy and controversial. Our pubescent pop princesses are marketed as Christian, promise-ring wearing virgins and town sluts at the same time – in a way that covers all the bases for conservatives and non-conservatives alike. Giving an underage girl even tepid titty bar choreography is going to outrage everyone; it’s a time tested formula for press.

As Chris Rock once said – A dad’s only job is to keep his daughter off the pole. Perhaps he needs a caveat to that…unless she’s a pop singer, then your job is to get her on the pole at exactly the right moment in her career.

I personally don’t care if this kid’s on a pole and I don’t care if my ten-year-old sees her there and thinks its cool. I trust my parenting. What I don’t like is the hypocrisy of our culture criminalizing, pathologizing and marginalizing sex workers, including dancers, while simultaneously trotting out their props, clothing and lifestyles to sell their product.

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HIV and the Law

July 23, 2009 · 7 Comments

Interesting story out of Knoxville, TN. Prostitution charges go from a misdemeanor to a felony if the sex worker is found to be HIV positive.

This is one of those issues that on the surface sounds somewhat reasonable. If you know you have a potentially life-threatening, communicable virus which you expose other people to without informing them, it’s unethical, wrong, outrageous behavior really. But is it criminal?

And if you say yes, then it’s criminal whether the HIV positive person in question is a sex worker or not.

Further, I would argue it’s not criminal in any case. All sexually active adults in this country are well aware of the risks of STDS, STIs, HIV, etc. If they choose to not use protection or even if they choose to use protection and that protection fails, it was a risk they consented to.

This a case an unfair law simple because it singles out one very marginalized group. Further, it’s demonizing sex workers, so that all of the non-sex workers can continue assuming they’re safe.

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Who’s Recession?

July 15, 2009 · 1 Comment

OBAMA20090501X390I was listening to right wing talk radio the other day. Laura Ingraham to be specific. And she was ranting and raving ala Glenn Beck and the rest of the moneyed conservative media nuts about Obama not fixing the economy. It occurred to me that fixing the economy to these folks and the rest of the former haves, heretofore known as the haves-a-little-less, means restoring it to what it was – a world where only those with cash could get ahead, own real estate and enjoy health insurance.

But the pre-recession period were not halcyon days for the rest of the U.S. populace – the working class, working poor and plain old poor. And for many of these folks, the recession hasn’t changed their standard of living one whit. The hookers and housekeepers, childcare workers and telemarketers are likely still employed without benefits, and absent the hope of ever owning a home same as it ever was. They don’t really give a shit if we ever get back to a place were the haves can be full-on old school haves again.

In fact, there’s possibility for the have nots now that there hasn’t been since FDR. Obama represents radical change, he’s extended partner benefits to federal workers and is making universal health look like a real possibility. Tax credits for first time home buyers as well as the recession corrected price tags give some folks previously locked out of the housing market a sudden, unexpected shot at the formerly exclusive American dream.

Obama might still be doing his job for this country even if the stock market and the haves-a-little-less are never restored to their former glory. In fact, that may be the true measure of whether or not he’s doing his job.

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Girls are not for Sale

July 14, 2009 · 7 Comments

18453823Ugh – the new version of the white slavery panic is full on upon us. Except the victims can be brown now – is this progress?

I came across a website championing a campaign Girls are not for Sale to stop the trafficking of under aged girls into the sex industry.

The campaign is a fundraising vehicle for GEMS, a NYC agency started by a missionary. When one opens various pages on the site you hear titilating sound bites. One is a young sounding woman saying, “I was like 12 and he was like 29 or 20..”, then the baritone sounds of a black pimp who’s redundantly featured again in a trailer from a documentary called Very Young Girls giving a lilting, sing-song sales pitch that he might give to the youngsters he supposedly convinces to work for him. White, cable-subscribing America must be eating this up. They don’t whether to masturbate to the titillating details or call their congress-person demanding action.

GEMSGirls are not for Sale, is using statistics that are highly unreliable and come straight from the anti-prostitution zealots. It has been a strategy of the sex work abolitionist’s movement to tie trafficking and under aged prostitution to consensual, adult sex work as a way to advance their agenda.

The websites states that the average age for a girl to enter the sex industry in the U.S. is 12-14. I call bullshit. I’m not only a former under aged sex worker but I’m also an activist who’s traveled the country for ten years speaking to other sex workers. I’ve yet to meet a single sex worker who started younger than the age of 17. I’m not saying they don’t exist; I’m saying the incidence of workers that young is rare rather than a burgeoning epidemic.

These statistics are further skewed by the sample they use – street workers, which make up about 5-10% of all U.S. sex workers. As the most accessible segment of the industry they’re the only portion studied and studied poorly I might add. Street workers are typically burdened with issues of addiction, poverty, domestic violence and mental illness making them a uniquely pathology-laden demographic. Further, because we’re talking about people engaged in a criminal activity, it’s very difficult to get folks to cooperate with a study, to self-indentify as sex workers and report honestly on their various activities.

It’s important to note that GEMS and other anti-prostitution folks typically gather their statistics from women and girls who are either in prison and/or who have just been arrested. When arrested, people will often report coercion if it squares with their interviewers assumptions, in the hopes of lesser charges or other considerations. Immigrant women have been known to agree to being reported as “trafficked” when trafficking might allow them leniency and the ability to stay in the country when in fact they sought travel to the U.S. for precisely the opportunity to work in adult industries because they can earn well above what they can earn in their home countries.

Most U.S. sex workers walk the carpet as indoor escorts hidden from those who would study them. These workers tend to be older, more educated and considerably more stable.

The GEMS site further states that 100,000-300,000 girls in the U.S. are at risk for commerical trafficking. What does this even mean? How does one become “at risk” for commercial trafficking? Can someone explain that? Further it should be noted that GEMS “girls” include women between the ages of 18-21. FYI – I know this makes your numbers more impressive but these are not under aged women. I would like to see what percentage of their clients are actually under aged.

It then goes on to say that 2,200 “girls” (again meaning some girls and young adults) are the victims of trafficking and “commercial exploitation” in NYC alone. So here we see the way the language is conflated – there’s a slick little sleight of diction (not to mention math) in which “trafficking” is substituted with “commercial exploitation” and girl is substituted with a young adult woman. And soon the reader is so won over to the cause of stopping these horrible traffickers, who are forcing all kinds of tender innocents into coarse commercial coitus that age isn’t even important because the assumption is accepted: all sex work is exploitation and tied to the taking, using and permanent destruction of girls. Anyone who partipates in the industry is then complicit in destroying the lives of children.

I’ll tell you what 100% of all girls are risk for today, right now in the U.S.: domestic violence – physical, emotional and sexual abuse perpetrated by their fathers, step-fathers, boyfriends and husbands – not some black dude in a Caddie talking like Huggie Bear in an Baretta rerun. That is a well-documented, indisputable fact. There’s no need to inflate statistics or create a smoke and mirrors subterfuge to gather support for the argument. So instead of grabbing a torch and joining the witch hunt for traffickers of your pre-teen babysitter, do something about the epidemic of men hurting women who they are supposed to love and protect.

Look, if there are even two thirteen year olds forced onto street corners for the purposes of touching the elbow of some adult dude for money, I’m happy there’s an organization like GEMS out there trying to save her. But I can’t be happy about inflated numbers and a phony sex slavery scare that take money (and yes, GEMS is pulling in some grant money not to mention selling documentaries to Showtime, selling and renting videos, hawking t-shirts and rubber bracelets and straight up taking cash donations) and attention away from the epidemic issues and hinder the cause of decriminalizing sex work which would make the industry safer for all women and prevent the abuse of under aged boys and girls. When sex work can operate in broad daylight, those slimy, violent scumbags who like to victimize women and children will have fewer dark allies to do business in.

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New Mexico Serial Murders

July 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment

albuquerqueThere’s still no progress in finding the person responsible for killing 11 women in New Mexico. They were all suspected sex workers, all young. Only seven of the 11 women have been identified. Decriminalize sex work.

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